The One Minute Apology

There is one thing that almost everyone has in common. They hate to admit that they were wrong or at fault about anything. People hate to say they are sorry. Some people hate it so much that they just don’t do it, or even don’t know how to say sorry. Even in situations where it is the determining factor in a relationship, job, or what have you.

I have a serious problem with this. I am far too prideful for my own good, and it takes a lot for me to admit my faults or mistakes. So this book was pretty much calling to me when I got the inspiration to read it. I need help! I’ve lost too many relationships and friends due to the fact that I can’t do so.

I opened this book for guidance on my quest to become a better person, as corny as that sounds. However, I was highly disappointed. This book came from a series of “One Minute” something or others from the author (“One Minute Manager” and “Leadership and the One Minute Manager”). So he’s a professional at the quick fix kind of thing.


Basically all this book tells you is what most of the world already knows… but just wont do. Apologize right away, tell whoever you’re apologizing to that you are truly sorry, and don’t make any excuses. Essentially, you should be able to apologize and convince someone that you are sorry in one minute. (I’ve never been able to do this, but who knows… maybe I just am not very skilled at apologizing.)

So is this book worth your time? If you get into a lot of trouble and have a tough time saying sorry, maybe. But if you just are looking for some advice on how to fix a troubled relationship or better things to say in your apologies… not the best book for that. Don’t waste your time reading common knowledge.